📌 Episode Summary:
This episode continues the narrative of Surah Maryam with the miraculous moment when the newborn Isa (as) speaks from the cradle to defend his mother and declare his prophetic mission. You unpack the meaning and significance of each part of his speech—from affirming his identity as Abdullah (servant of Allah), to describing his mission of prayer, charity, and respect for his mother.

From there, the discussion expands into the theological disputes surrounding Isa (as), clarifying the Islamic stance on his nature and role. The Qur’an rebuts both the Jewish rejection of Isa and the Christian deification of him. With tenderness and firmness, the Surah reasserts the essence of Tawheed (oneness of God) and draws our attention to a future day of “intense regret” (Yawm al-Hasrah)—a reminder to live purposefully and mindfully today.

The episode ends by introducing the next section: the story of Prophet Ibrahim (as) and his dignified but heart-wrenching dialogue with his idol-worshipping father—another example of truth delivered with compassion and courage.

🧭 Key Takeaways:
Isa’s First Words Define His Identity: As a newborn, Isa (as) declares: “I am the servant of Allah”—refuting any claim to divinity. His speech reaffirms key values: servitude, prophecy, worship, charity, and respect for one’s mother.
Emotional Protection of His Mother: In speaking up, Isa (as) not only defends his own identity but also shields Maryam (as) from slander—modeling how children can become a source of honor for their parents.
A Call to Monotheism: The Surah addresses theological disputes about Isa (as), stating clearly that Allah does not beget or is begotten. Any deviation from this is an error rooted in ego, not revelation.
Truth Is Simple, Misguidance Is Complicated: While Isa’s (as) words are direct and clear, the man-made constructs (e.g., the Trinity) are convoluted—reflecting the distortion of truth by intellectual arrogance.
Faith Means Trust in Divine Power: The phrase Kun fa-yakoon (“Be, and it is”) reminds us that divine will transcends natural law. When we believe in Allah’s power, miracles no longer surprise us—they reinforce our awe.
Yawm al-Hasrah – The Day of Regret: Whether believer or not, many will regret missed opportunities for good on the Day of Judgment. Like the parable of the travelers in the cave, we’ll wish we had done more.
Living in a State of Ghafla (Heedlessness): Modern distractions and spiritual forgetfulness are examples of ghafla, which the Qur’an warns against. We’re called to awaken and become conscious of our purpose.
💡 Reflection Prompt for Listeners:
What do you want your soul to “witness” on the Day of Regret? What small steps can you take today to collect more light for that journey?

📌 Episode Summary:
In this opening episode of the Surah Maryam series, we dive into the historical and spiritual backdrop of Chapter 19 of the Qur’an. You begin by highlighting the virtues of Surah Maryam—its poetic rhythm, spiritual benefits, and relevance for those struggling with anxiety or hardship.

The main focus is on the profound story of the first Muslim migration to Abyssinia. Through the lens of this pivotal moment, we explore how Surah Maryam served as a spiritual defense and a tool for bridge-building across faiths. The podcast revisits the powerful exchange between Hazrat Ja’far ibn Abi Talib and the Christian king Najashi, revealing timeless lessons in interfaith dialogue, calm advocacy, and shared values.

The episode ends with the first ruku of the Surah, focusing on Prophet Zakariya’s heartfelt prayer for a righteous child—an emotional and deeply personal example of divine mercy, faith in the unseen, and legacy rooted in spiritual values.

🧭 Key Takeaways:
Spiritual Merit: Surah Maryam brings comfort to the anxious, protection to the frightened, and blessings in life, wealth, and children to those who recite it regularly.
Historical Context: The surah was revealed around the time of the first hijrah to Abyssinia—when early Muslims, facing brutal persecution, sought refuge under the just Christian king Najashi.
The Power of Interfaith Dialogue: Ja’far’s recitation of Surah Maryam moved Najashi to tears and led him to reject the Quraysh's demands. It showed that shared spiritual values can open hearts even across religious lines.
Speak from Shared Humanity: Differences in faith are real, but the Qur’an encourages us to begin dialogue by focusing on commonalities. Quoting Imam Ali: “People are either your brothers in faith or your equals in humanity.”
Women in the Qur’an: Surah Maryam is the only chapter named after a woman. While many women are mentioned in the Qur’an, Maryam (as) is uniquely named and honored—highlighting her extraordinary status across Abrahamic faiths.
Theme of Divine Gift: The surah begins with the story of Zakariya (as), an aging prophet praying with deep humility and sincerity for a child who can continue the mission of truth. His answered prayer exemplifies how Allah grants beyond expectations, especially when intentions are pure.
💡 Reflection Prompt for Listeners:
When you’re advocating for your faith or values—at work, in the community, or online—how can you lead with calmness, compassion, and common ground, just like Ja’far did?

📌 Episode Summary:
In this powerful and emotionally resonant episode, you delve into the heart of Surah Maryam—the miraculous conception and birth of Prophet Isa (Jesus) through Maryam (as), a paragon of purity, courage, and spiritual strength.

Beginning with the backstory from Surah Al-Imran, we learn about Maryam’s early life, her mother’s intention to dedicate her unborn child to God, and the miraculous signs surrounding her upbringing under the care of Prophet Zakariya. The episode then explores Maryam’s spiritual retreat, her encounter with Jibra’il (Gabriel), and the divine declaration of a miraculous birth.

You highlight how this moment, while a divine gift, was also an enormous trial: the physical pain of childbirth, the emotional anguish of public shame, and the psychological toll of facing it alone. Yet, Maryam’s response models sabr (patience), tawakkul (trust), and emotional authenticity.

The podcast closes with profound reflections on God’s mercy during hardship, the balance of effort and divine support (e.g., Maryam being told to shake the palm tree), and a compelling reminder that faith does not mean the absence of emotion—but the resilience to stay anchored in divine guidance even through anguish.

🧭 Key Takeaways:
Spiritual Dedication Begins Before Birth: Maryam’s mother dedicated her unborn child to God’s service, teaching us the value of intentional parenting and prenatal dua.
Seclusion as Spiritual Preparation: Maryam’s withdrawal to a quiet place was not a rejection of society, but a deepening of her bond with God—a reminder that moments of solitude can precede spiritual breakthroughs.
The Divine Name ‘Ar-Rahman’: Surah Maryam repeatedly uses God’s name Ar-Rahman to emphasize His compassion, especially toward women and those bearing heavy burdens.
Miracle and Trial Intertwined: Maryam’s experience teaches us that divine gifts can come with great tests. Even a miracle like the virgin birth involved pain, fear, and societal shame.
Emotions Are Not Weakness: Maryam’s wish for death in the throes of labor shows us that strong feelings are not a sign of weak faith. The Qur’an validates emotional overwhelm while guiding us to respond with trust and restraint.
Take Action, Even in Despair: Maryam is told to shake a dry palm tree—an act that might seem futile. Yet, this symbolizes that even when we feel helpless, we are not absolved from trying. Our effort meets God’s mercy.
Nutrition and Prophetic Wisdom: The mention of dates post-birth aligns with both Qur’anic miracles and Prophetic advice—highlighting Islam’s alignment with holistic well-being.
💡 Reflection Prompt for Listeners:
Think of a time when you were overwhelmed and alone. What helped you keep going? Can you look back and see moments where God’s mercy reached you—often in quiet, unexpected ways?

"…and so that you complete the number and glorify Allah for having guided you, and that you may give thanks."
— Surah Al-Baqara (2:185)

🌙 Episode Summary

As we approach the end of Ramadan, we reflect on what it means to truly keep Allah at the center of our lives. Ramadan has been a time of spiritual focus, self-discipline, and connection to the Divine. Now, as we prepare to celebrate Eid, we are reminded to exalt Allah’s greatness and express gratitude for His guidance. This is not the end—but a launchpad for the rest of the year.

💡 Key Themes

• Allahu Akbar as a Declaration of Priorities: More than a phrase, it is a mindset. It means Allah is greater than our desires, fears, habits, or attachments.

• Eid as a Celebration of Spiritual Victory: It’s not just about breaking the fast—it’s about breaking free from patterns that keep us distant from Allah.

• Gratitude and Guidance: End Ramadan by glorifying Allah for His guidance and showing thanks not just with words, but with continued action.

🧭 Practical Ways to Keep Allah Central

1. Maintain Regular Prayer
   Start with at least one prayer on time daily—build consistency and connection.

2. Daily Quran Reflection
   Read even one verse a day with contemplation. Ask: How can I live this today?

3. Continue Acts of Charity
   Keep giving—through wealth, time, service, or kindness. Let generosity remain part of your identity.

4. Nourish Your Dua Practice
   Keep up the heartfelt conversations you had with Allah during Ramadan. Use this to maintain spiritual intimacy.

5. Strengthen Family Bonds
   Carry forward the spirit of connection and forgiveness. Clean relationships = clean heart = closeness to Allah.

🕊️ Ramadan’s End Is a Beginning

• Think of Eid as a graduation, not a conclusion.

• The strength you built this month is your spiritual muscle—now use it to keep growing.

• Small, consistent efforts throughout the year are more valuable than temporary intensity.

🌟 Closing Dua

May Allah accept all our efforts this Ramadan, help us carry forward our spiritual gains, and keep our heart forever anchored to Him. May we experience the peace, clarity, and purpose that comes from a life centered around His greatness.
Eid Mubarak! 💛

📝 If you found this series beneficial, consider sharing it with someone else who might appreciate a meaningful reflection. Let’s keep the ripple of blessings going, even beyond Ramadan.

Count Your Blessings
Verse Reflection:
“And if you count Allah's favors, you will not be able to number them.” — Surah Ibrahim (14:34)

🌟 Episode Summary

In this episode, we reflect on the Qur’anic reminder that Allah’s blessings are infinite—too many to count. From the seen to the unseen, the obvious to the hidden, His favors surround us constantly. True gratitude lies not just in counting our blessings but in recognizing them, reflecting on them deeply, and allowing that awareness to nurture our faith and wellbeing.

🧠 Why We Can’t Count His Blessings

1. They Are Everywhere – Blessings like sunshine, air, and functioning limbs fade into the background until they’re threatened or lost.

2. They Are Too Numerous – From the stars in the sky to the cells in our body, Allah’s gifts are immeasurable.

3. Many Are Hidden – We’re often unaware of blessings until a shift in perspective or time reveals them. Some are disguised as challenges that end up guiding us closer to Him.

💭 The Wisdom of the Ahlul Bayt (as)

• Imam Zaynul Abidin (as): “The most thankful is the one who is conscious of their inability to thank.”

• Imam Hussain (as) in Dua Arafah: “Even if all creation tried to count Your blessings, they could not.”

💡 Spiritual and Psychological Benefits of Gratitude

• Strengthens connection to Allah – Gratitude is an act of worship and love.

• Balances perspective during hardships – Even in darkness, light exists.

• Improves relationships – Grateful people are easier to be around.

• Builds emotional resilience – Helps us cope with life’s ups and downs.

• Leads to happiness – Shifts our focus to what we have instead of what we lack.

• Rewires the brain – Gratitude creates positive thought patterns and emotional regulation.

☕ A Practical Tip: Teacup Gratitude

Instead of rushing through your morning tea or coffee, pause and turn it into a moment of mindfulness:

• Feel the warmth of the cup.

• Breathe in the aroma.

• Think of the many people and processes that made it possible—from farmers and transporters to your ability to hold the cup.
  This transforms a routine moment into a spiritual and emotional reset.

🛠️ Practicing Deep Gratitude

• Don’t just list blessings—explore them. Choose one and reflect on its depth.

• Let gratitude become a daily spiritual practice that anchors your day.

• Remember: Gratitude isn’t about ignoring problems—it’s about seeing blessings alongside them.

❤️ A Thank You to You

To every listener and reader: you are a blessing. Your support, presence, and encouragement mean more than words can express. May we grow in gratitude together and become among those whose hearts are filled with praise for the One who grants it all.

All praise is due to Allah—for He taught us how to thank Him.
— Sahifa Sajjadiyya, Dua 37

Pay It Forward
Qur’anic Verse: “…And do good to others as Allah has done good to you.” – Surah Al-Qasas (28:77)

🌟 Episode Summary

This reflection centers around the Quranic command to use our blessings—wealth, knowledge, time, and influence—not just for ourselves, but in service to others. Drawing from the story of Qarun, a man who failed to recognize his blessings as a trust from Allah, we are reminded that our resources are tests, not trophies. Doing good with what we have is how we build our Hereafter and bring light to this world.

💡 Key Themes

• Blessings Are Trusts, Not Entitlements
  Qarun’s story shows what happens when arrogance replaces gratitude. We are called to be guardians, not owners, of what we have.

• The Call to Do Good
  The verse calls us to mirror Allah’s generosity: just as He has been good to us, we must be good to others. This includes our money, time, skills, strength, and connections.

• Charity Beyond Wealth
  Charity includes kindness, mentorship, presence, and advocacy. Giving is not limited to money—it includes energy, compassion, and love.

• Spiritual Growth Through Generosity
  Giving purifies the heart, grows empathy, and brings us closer to Allah. It's not just about helping others—it transforms us.

🧠 Psychology Meets Spirituality

• “Helper’s High”: Acts of kindness activate the brain’s pleasure centers and foster emotional wellbeing.

• Altruism & Resilience: Helping others builds our coping skills, social bonds, and inner strength—even in our own challenging seasons.

• Giving as Healing: Especially in difficult times, turning outward can be our greatest source of comfort.

🛠️ Practical Ways to “Pay It Forward”

• Wealth – Donate, support local causes, or give to global relief efforts like IDRF’s Palestine Campaign.

• Time & Energy – Volunteer, help a neighbor, or simply offer your presence.

• Knowledge – Mentor, teach, or share what you’ve learned.

• Social Influence – Advocate for justice, amplify important causes, connect others to opportunities.

• Kindness – A kind word, a sincere prayer, or listening ear can go a long way.

🧭 Reflective Questions

• Am I a conduit of Allah’s blessings or a container?

• How have I used my gifts to benefit others recently?

• Is the world a better place because I passed through it today?

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✨ Final Reminder

You don’t have to do something grand—just something good. Start with what you have, right where you are.

🌱 “Doing good is the rent we pay for living on this earth.”

📝 If this reflection moved you, consider sharing it with someone or leaving a review for the podcast on Apple Podcasts. Small actions can create big ripples. Let’s keep the blessings flowing. 💛

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Poem Mentioned: At Day’s End by John Hall
A beautiful call to make each day count through kindness, service, and compassion.

"And I swear by the self-accusing soul." – Surah Al-Qiyamah (75:2)

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🧭 Episode Summary:

In this reflection, we explore the concept of Nafs al-Lawwama—the self-accusing soul—as a divine gift that keeps our spiritual compass aligned. Rather than seeing guilt as something to suppress, the Quran invites us to embrace it as a sign of life in the heart and a tool for growth. During Ramadan, when our spiritual awareness is heightened, let’s learn how to work with our conscience, not against it.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Allah swears by the self-accusing soul, emphasizing its deep spiritual significance.

• Nafs al-Lawwama acts as our internal GPS, alerting us when we deviate from our values.

• Guilt, when healthy, is a sign of conscience, not weakness. It's a prompt to reflect, recalibrate, and return to alignment.

🧠 Psychological + Spiritual Insights:

• Guilt is like a mini-judgment in this world—a chance to course-correct before the ultimate accountability in the next.

• Modern culture may encourage avoiding guilt, but Islamic teachings frame it as a path to purification and peace.

• Ignoring the conscience over time dulls our sensitivity to right and wrong, leaving us spiritually disoriented.

🛠️ Practical Applications:

1. Don’t silence guilt—listen to it. Ask: What is this discomfort trying to teach me?

2. Use guilt as a motivator for change, not self-punishment.

3. Seek forgiveness—from Allah and from those we may have wronged.

4. Embrace the discomfort that leads to growth. It means your soul is still alive.

5. Remember Imam Ali (as)'s words: “Whoever does not have a voice of self-blame does not have a heart.”

🌱 Final Reflection:

Self-worth doesn’t come from likes or approval—it comes from living in alignment with your values and having the courage to grow. This Ramadan, let’s nurture our conscience, embrace its voice, and walk the path from guilt to growth, from self-blame to self-transformation.

Let Nafs al-Lawwama guide you back to your best self.

“Repel (evil) with what is best, then the one between whom and you was enmity will become like a close friend.” — Surah Fussilat (41:34)

🧭 Episode Summary:

Conflict is inevitable, but how we respond is a powerful reflection of who we are. In this episode, we explore the Quranic invitation to repel negativity with what is best. Instead of mirroring anger, sarcasm, or aggression, we are reminded to stay rooted in our values, respond with calm, and create the possibility of transformation—even in strained relationships.

💡 Key Takeaways:

• Don’t mirror negativity: Reacting from impulse escalates conflict. Responding from your values diffuses it.

• The Prophet (saw)’s example: His patience with a woman who insulted him daily is a masterclass in responding with dignity.

• The goal isn’t to “win” an argument—it’s to remain anchored in character and conscience.

🛠️ Practical Steps:

1. Pause before reacting
   Ask: “Will this reaction make things better?”
   Respond with thought, not reflex.

2. Use your God-given faculties

   • Imagination: Visualize rising above.

   • Self-control: Resist hurtful retorts.

   • Conscience: Align with your best self.

3. Separate the person from the moment
   People are not defined by their worst behavior.

4. Reframe the attack
   Think: “They must be in pain to behave this way.”

5. Make Du’a for strength
   As Imam Zaynul Abidin (as) taught, pray to respond to harm with kindness and hostility with connection.

🌱 Final Reflection:

True strength lies not in overpowering others but in overcoming our own ego. Responding with grace, especially when provoked, transforms conflict into connection—and most importantly, keeps our soul at peace. When the moment passes, you’ll be proud of who you chose to be.

Let us respond from values, not from triggers.

🧭 Episode Summary:

“O you who believe! Let not one people deride another; it may be that they are better than they.” Surah Al-Hujurat (49:11)

In today’s reflection, we explore the serious spiritual and emotional consequences of mockery and ridicule in relationships and community life. While sarcasm and making fun of others may feel like harmless humor, the Quran reminds us that such behavior erodes the foundation of peace, respect, and brotherhood—and may be deeply offensive in the sight of Allah.

🧠 Key Points:

• Mockery = Contempt:
  Ridiculing others, even subtly, falls under the sin of sukhriya (mockery) and is considered an act of contempt, which psychologists like Dr. John Gottman identify as the #1 predictor of relationship breakdown.

• Not Just About Words:
  The verse and its interpretation include words, gestures, tone, imitation—any form of communication used to belittle or mock.

• Serious Spiritual Consequences:
  Imam Sajjad (as) links mockery to actions that invite Allah’s wrath, comparing it to oppression and trampling on rights.

• Why Do People Do It?
  Often done to:

  • Feel superior
  • Fit in socially
  • Mask one’s own insecurity
  • Imitate normalized cultural behavior

💡 Practical Tips to Avoid Mockery:

1. Pause and Reflect:
   Would I want someone to say this about me?

2. Be Mindful Online:
   Avoid sharing memes or videos that make fun of people.

3. Redirect Conversations:
   If someone is being mocked in a group, gently steer the conversation away.

4. Teach Children Early:
   Normalize kindness and empathy, not sarcasm and bullying.

5. Apologize When Necessary:
   If we’ve hurt someone with our words, seeking forgiveness can heal relationships.

We often forget that those we mock may hold greater status in Allah’s eyes. The real joke may be on us. Let’s choose words that uplift, not wound, and foster relationships built on dignity, mercy, and kindness—just as the Quran and the Prophet ﷺ taught us.

🤲 “O Allah, purify our hearts from pride and our tongues from mockery. Make us among those who speak with gentleness and treat others with honor.”

In this episode, we explore a subtle but powerful relationship principle from the Quran: how our interpretations of others’ behavior shape our emotional well-being and relationships. Suspicion and negative assumptions can harm even the strongest bonds. But with awareness and compassion, we can choose more balanced, kind, and healthy interpretations.

🧠 Key Insights:

🔹 The Human Mind Is a Meaning-Making Machine
We constantly interpret others’ words and actions—but those interpretations are often shaped by our own insecurities or past experiences, not reality.

🔹 The Double Standard
We judge ourselves by intentions but others by actions. This creates unfairness in how we perceive and respond to people.

🔹 Assumptions Can Be Emotionally Harmful

• They heighten anxiety and stress
• They weaken trust and closeness
• They distort our sense of reality

🔹 The Quran Encourages a Better Way

• “Avoid much suspicion…” (49:12)
• “Why did not the believers think well of their own people?” (24:12)
• The Prophet ﷺ and Imams taught us to give 70 excuses before assuming the worst.

🛠️ Practical Tools to Shift Our Mindset:

1. Pause Before Reacting
   Ask: Is this the only explanation? Could there be another possibility?

2. Give the Benefit of the Doubt
   Try: “Maybe they’re going through something I don’t know.”

3. Communicate Rather Than Assume
   Say: “You seemed quiet—everything okay?” instead of assuming distance or dislike.

4. Let Go of Unhelpful Thoughts
   Not every thought is true or useful. Don’t feed interpretations that drain your peace.

🌱 Final Reflection:

Choosing positive, compassionate interpretations isn’t about ignoring problems—it’s about protecting your own peaceand building trust. By practicing understanding over assumption, we follow the Quranic path of emotional wisdom, deepen our relationships, and create a more merciful world.

🎧 Tune in and reflect: Are your thoughts helping you connect, or pushing others away?

 

“And do not quarrel, for then you will lose heart and your power will depart.”
[Surah Al-Anfal 8:46]

Conflict is natural in any relationship, team, or community—but how we handle those differences determines whether we grow or fall apart. In this episode, we explore the Quranic warning against internal division and how unresolved quarrels can strip us of our energy, effectiveness, and unity.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Differences are Natural — Mismanagement is Destructive
The verse reminds us that conflict isn’t the issue—division is. When we quarrel endlessly, we lose motivation, focus, and momentum—just like a sailboat without wind.

🔹 The Psychological Toll of Internal Conflict

• Loss of shared purpose
• Emotional exhaustion and burnout
• Erosion of trust
• Impaired problem-solving
• Increased vulnerability to external threats

🔹 Unity Is a Strength Multiplier
Successful teams and families:

• Keep the bigger picture in mind
• Encourage respectful dialogue
• Address issues early
• Value diverse strengths

Practical Tips to Protect Unity:

✅ Normalize Disagreement – Conflict doesn’t mean failure. Expect it, and prepare to work through it.

✅ Shift the Focus – From me vs. you to us vs. the problem.

✅ Pause Ego, Prioritize Connection – Ask yourself: Do I want to win this argument, or protect this relationship?

✅ Use a Conflict Resolution Plan

1. Acknowledge the tension early
2. Listen with curiosity, not defensiveness
3. Find common ground

✅ Seek Help When Needed – Sometimes, we need an outside perspective to help us move forward.

Just as wind powers a ship, unity powers communities, families, and teams. When we quarrel, we lose that power. But when we stay united—despite our differences—we thrive.

Let’s commit to preserving the wind of unity in our relationships, and not letting ego or division steal our strength.

🎧 Tune in now for a reminder that thriving together starts with choosing connection over conflict.

In this episode, we explore Surah Al-Hujurat (49:10) which calls us to a higher standard of community:

“The believers are but brothers, so make settlement between your brothers. And fear Allah that you may receive mercy.”

This verse emphasizes that we are not just acquaintances or allies—we are spiritual siblings, bound by faith. Disagreements are inevitable, but the Quran commands us to be active agents of reconciliation, reminding us that conflict resolution is a deeply spiritual act.

Key Themes Covered:

🔹 Brotherhood in Faith
Islam defines the believers as one family—a structure that supports itself, regardless of differences in race, culture, or opinion.

🔹 Reconciliation is Worship
Imam Ali (as) reminds us that mending broken relationships is better than many recommended acts of worship.
The Prophet (saw) and Imams (as) taught that Allah loves those who reconcile others.

🔹 The Psychological Wisdom
Modern psychology confirms that social harmony, connection, and resolution of conflict are essential for emotional and even physical well-being. Disconnection breeds stress, while unity strengthens us.

Practical Reflections:

✅ Start With Yourself
Reflect on any strained relationships. Is there someone you need to reach out to? Apologize to? Forgive?

✅ Be a Friend of the Relationship
When others are in conflict, don’t take sides—support healing, not division. Be a voice of calm and understanding.

✅ Promote Curiosity Over Judgment
In a diverse Ummah, try to understand before reacting. Ask questions. Listen deeply. Build bridges.

This verse reminds us: Unity is not optional—it’s foundational.
Let’s be among those who build relationships, not break them.
Let’s be peacemakers in a world that desperately needs more healing.

🎧 Listen now and reflect on how you can foster reconciliation, within yourself and in your community.

Episode Summary:

Our relationships—whether in family, friendships, marriage, or community—are central to our well-being. Research confirms that healthy relationships lead to lower stress, greater happiness, and increased resilience. Islam beautifully aligns with this, emphasizing that our connection with Allah impacts how we treat others—and vice versa.

In Surah Aal-e-Imran (3:159), Allah (SWT) reminds the Prophet (SAW):

“It is by Allah’s mercy that you deal gently with them. And had you been harsh and hard-hearted, they would have dispersed from around you.”

This verse highlights a key principle for maintaining relationships: gentleness, mercy, and emotional wisdom. Even when people fail us, reacting with kindness instead of harshness strengthens relationships rather than breaking them.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 The Prophet (SAW)’s Leadership in Hardship – After the Battle of Uhud, instead of reprimanding his companions, he led with compassion and wisdom.
🔹 Emotional Maturity in Leadership – Reacting with ego and frustration harms relationships. True leadership—whether in parenting, marriage, or community—requires emotional control.
🔹 The Psychological Impact of Harshness – Criticism triggers emotional flooding, making people defensive rather than reflective.
🔹 Softness Inspires Change – When people feel valued despite their mistakes, they are more likely to correct themselves.

How to Communicate with Gentleness & Wisdom:

✅ Choose the Right Moment – If emotions are high, pause before addressing an issue.
✅ Use Gentle Language – Replace “You always…” with “I feel…” or “I noticed…”
✅ Mind Your Tone & Expression – Sometimes, how we say something matters more than what we say.
✅ Prioritize Connection Over Being Right – Conversations should build relationships, not egos.
✅ Forgive & Seek Forgiveness – When someone reacts negatively, pause and offer reassurance.

Final Reflection:

Are our words and tone inviting connection or pushing people away? The Quran reminds us that true strength lies in softness.

🎧 Tune in now to learn how kindness in speech can transform your relationships!

Yesterday, we reflected on how forgetting Allah leads us to forget our true selves. Today, we take that discussion further by reminding ourselves of our inherent nobility and purpose.

In Surah Al-Isra (17:70), Allah (SWT) declares:

“And surely We have honored the children of Adam… and We have made them to excel by an appropriate excellence over most of those whom We have created.”

Islam teaches that human beings are honored creations, endowed with intellect, free will, and the ability to reflect divine attributes. Recognizing this truth shapes our self-worth, resilience, and sense of purpose.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Your Potential Is Already Within You – Imam Ali (AS): “You think you are a small entity, but within you is enfolded the entire universe.”
🔹 Islam’s View of Human Nature – Unlike fragile psychological models, Islam sees humans as resilient beings capable of growth and transformation.
🔹 Post-Traumatic Growth – Hardships do not have to break us; they can refine us and make us stronger.
🔹 Self-Worth in Faith – Your value is not based on worldly success, but on your ability to reflect divine qualities like patience, justice, and mercy.

How to Strengthen Self-Worth & Resilience:

✅ Remember Your Divine Origin – You are not insignificant; you are honored by Allah.
✅ See Challenges as Growth – Hardships are opportunities to build strength and wisdom.
✅ Engage in Meaningful Work – Your impact on others defines your true success.
✅ Develop Spiritual Resilience – Strengthen yourself through prayer, dhikr, and reflection.
✅ Choose Uplifting Company – Surround yourself with people who remind you of your true worth.

Final Reflection:

You are not weak. You are not purposeless. Allah has honored you, and within you lies the potential for profound growth, wisdom, and goodness.

🎧 Tune in now to rediscover your self-worth through the lens of faith!

Episode Summary:
Yesterday, we explored how what we consume affects our soul. Today, we take that conversation deeper by reflecting on Surah Al-Hashr (59:19):

“And be not like those who forgot Allah, so He made them forget their own souls. Those are the transgressors.”

This verse warns us about the gradual loss of spiritual awareness—a slow, almost imperceptible process that occurs when we disconnect from Allah. Just as water erodes stone over time, our values, beliefs, and priorities can shift without us realizing it—until we look back and wonder how we got here.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 The Boiled Frog Effect – Small changes, left unchecked, can lead to a total transformation without us noticing.
🔹 Desensitization to Harmful Content – What once shocked us becomes normal through repeated exposure.
🔹 Doomscrolling & Negativity Bias – Consuming too much bad news rewires our brains for stress and hopelessness.
🔹 Influence of Social Circles & Digital Communities – Who we follow and engage with shapes our thoughts and beliefs.
🔹 Gradual Shift in Priorities – If faith is not nurtured, worldly distractions slowly replace spiritual commitments.

How to Stay Spiritually Aware:

✅ Audit Your Mental & Spiritual Diet – Be intentional with what you consume online and offline.
✅ Engage in Regular Reflection – Pause and ask: Am I becoming who I want to be?
✅ Surround Yourself with Good Influence – The Prophet (SAW) said: "A person follows the faith of his close friend."
✅ Slow Down & Listen to Your Conscience – The faster life moves, the easier it is to lose awareness.

Final Reflection:

Just as values can erode over time, they can also be reclaimed through conscious effort. The Quran reminds us: Don’t forget Allah, so you don’t forget yourself.

🎧 Tune in now to learn how to protect your values and remain spiritually grounded!

Yesterday, we reflected on the importance of eating what is tayyib (pure, wholesome). Today, we expand on this idea by exploring all forms of consumption—not just what we eat, but what we read, watch, and listen to.

In Surah Abasa (80:24), Allah (SWT) commands:

“Then let man look at his food.”

While this verse primarily refers to physical nourishment, scholars explain that it also applies to spiritual and mental consumption. Just as we are mindful of what we eat, we must be mindful of what we feed our minds and hearts.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Your Mental Diet Shapes You – We consume more information in a week than past generations did in a lifetime. What impact is this having on our well-being?
🔹 The Effects of Negativity – Doomscrolling, excessive news, and toxic content increase stress, anxiety, and cynicism.
🔹 Your Social Media Feed = Your Mental Fridge – What we follow and engage with determines our inner state.
🔹 What You Listen to Matters – Words, conversations, and music all contribute to the health of our hearts and minds.
🔹 Spiritual Guidance on Consumption:

• Imam Baqir (AS): “Be careful from where and from whom you get your information.”
• The Prophet (SAW): “The example of a good companion and a bad companion is like that of the seller of musk and the blacksmith’s bellows.”

How to Curate a Healthier Mental & Spiritual Diet:

✅ Audit Your Social Media – Unfollow negativity, follow uplifting content.
✅ Limit News Exposure – Stay informed, but don’t let bad news consume you.
✅ Be Mindful of What You Listen To – Choose content that nurtures your soul.
✅ Set Digital Boundaries – Reduce screen time, take social media breaks.
✅ Engage in Real-Life Connections – Replace passive scrolling with meaningful conversations and time in nature.

Final Reflection:

"Are we feeding our souls with nourishment or toxins?"

May we all become more mindful of what we consume—not just on our plates, but in our hearts and minds. Ameen.

🎧 Tune in now to reflect on how to purify your mental and spiritual diet!

Episode Summary:
Food is one of the greatest blessings from Allah, yet in today’s world of ultra-processed foods and commercial farming, we must ask: Are we truly eating in a way that nourishes our bodies, minds, and souls?

In Surah Al-Baqarah (2:172), Allah commands:

“O you who believe! Eat of the good things (tayyib) that We have provided for you, and give thanks to Allah if Him it is that you serve.”

This episode explores the deeper meaning of tayyib (pure, wholesome) food—beyond just halal—highlighting how our diet impacts not just our physical health but also our mental clarity, spiritual well-being, and connection with Allah.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Islam Encourages Enjoyment, But in Moderation – The Prophet (SAW) enjoyed good food, but he also warned against overindulgence.
🔹 Tayyib vs. Halal – Just because something is halal doesn’t mean it is nourishing. Processed, artificial foods harm both body and mind.
🔹 The Modern Diet Crisis – Studies link ultra-processed foods to obesity, anxiety, and even behavioral issues.
🔹 The Body as an Amanah (Trust) – The Prophet (SAW) taught mindful eating: filling only one-third of the stomach with food, drink, and air.
🔹 Spiritual Effects of Overeating – Excess food can lead to lethargy, weakened willpower, and spiritual disconnection.

Reflection Questions:

• Am I choosing foods that nourish my body and mind or just what is convenient?
• How can I be more mindful of portion sizes and eating habits?
• Am I using food as fuel for worship and gratitude or as a source of indulgence?

Final Thought:
Eating tayyib isn’t just about health—it’s about aligning our daily habits with divine wisdom. And what better time to start than Ramadan?

🎧 Tune in now to learn how a mindful approach to food can transform your well-being!

Episode Summary:
We often seek comfort and avoid discomfort, but what if the things we resist are actually the key to our well-being? In Surah Al-Baqarah (2:216), Allah (SWT) reminds us:

“It may be that you dislike something while it is good for you, and it may be that you love something while it is bad for you. And Allah knows, while you do not know.”

This verse is a powerful call to trust Allah’s wisdom over our limited perception. Whether it’s waking up early, exercising, fasting, or enduring hardships, growth often comes from embracing temporary discomfort for long-term well-being.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Comfort ≠ Happiness – Modern life prioritizes ease, but research shows that avoiding struggle weakens us mentally, emotionally, and physically.
🔹 Short-Term vs. Long-Term Thinking – Just as athletes and students push through challenges for future rewards, we must apply the same principle to spiritual and personal growth.
🔹 Ramadan as Training – Fasting teaches us that self-restraint leads to deeper fulfillment. What feels difficult in the moment becomes a source of strength.
🔹 How to Align with True Well-Being:

• Reframe hardships – See challenges as growth opportunities.
• Trust Allah’s wisdom – Even if you don’t understand the purpose now.
• Embrace discomfort intentionally – Through fasting, Tahajjud, or patience.
• Seek long-term benefit – Make choices that future you will be grateful for.

Final Reflection:
The next time you resist something beneficial, pause and ask:
"Am I avoiding this because it’s truly bad for me, or simply because it’s uncomfortable?"

🎧 Tune in now to explore how embracing discomfort leads to lasting well-being!

Fasting is challenging—so how do we reconcile the difficulty of Ramadan with Allah’s promise in Surah Al-Baqarah (2:185):

“Allah desires ease for you, and He does not desire for you difficulty…”

In this episode, we explore the true meaning of ease and why it is often earned through hardship. While modern culture equates ease with comfort, Islam teaches that real ease comes from resilience, discipline, and endurance.

Through examples from psychology, neuroscience, and Quranic wisdom, we reflect on how Ramadan is a spiritual boot camp—training us mentally, emotionally, and spiritually for the challenges of life.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Ease is earned, not given – Discipline leads to long-term strength and well-being.
🔹 Psychology of hardship – Studies show that enduring discomfort builds patience, emotional regulation, and self-control.
🔹 Fasting & the Brain – Research confirms that fasting sharpens focus, strengthens willpower, and reduces stress.
🔹 Ramadan as Training – Just like athletes and soldiers undergo rigorous preparation, fasting conditions us to face life’s struggles with resilience.

Reflection Questions:

• Do I view hardship as something to avoid or something that can strengthen me?
• How has fasting helped me develop patience and self-discipline?
• How can I apply the lessons of Ramadan to other areas of my life?

🎧 Tune in now and discover how embracing short-term hardship leads to lasting ease!

In our previous episode, we reflected on how trials are an inevitable part of life. But once we accept that hardships will come, the next important question is: How do we respond to them?

In today’s episode, we explore Surah Al-Baqarah (2:155-157), where Allah (SWT) reminds us that patience (sabr) is the key to attracting His blessings, mercy, and guidance.

“Who, when a misfortune befalls them, say: Surely we are Allah's and to Him we shall return.”
(Quran 2:156)

The sabireen—those who practice patience—are not just enduring suffering; they are aligning themselves with divine wisdom. Their resilience transforms hardship into an opportunity for spiritual elevation.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Trials are a test of faith and an opportunity for growth.
🔹 True sabr (patience) manifests in three ways:

1. Inner peace – The heart remains steady, not overcome by despair.
2. Faithful speech – The tongue avoids complaint and expresses reliance on Allah.
3. Composed actions – The body remains steadfast in righteousness.
   🔹 The promise of divine blessings: Those who cultivate sabr receive Allah’s mercy and guidance both in this world and the Hereafter.

Reflections on Sabr from Scholars:

✨ Shaykh Nasiruddin Tusi: "Sabr restrains the inner being from anguish, the tongue from complaint, and the body from untoward movements."
✨ Imam Khomeini: "Without sabr, the heart is full of anxiety and alarm. But sabr diminishes misfortune, strengthens the will, and brings peace amidst hardship."
✨ Quran 23:111: “Surely I have rewarded them this day because they were patient, that they are the achievers.”

How to Develop Sabr in Our Lives:

✅ Recognize that hardships are temporary and a means of purification.
✅ Reframe challenges as opportunities for spiritual elevation rather than punishment.
✅ Control emotional reactions and avoid excessive complaints to others.
✅ Strengthen trust in Allah’s wisdom—knowing that every test carries hidden mercy.
✅ Deepen reliance on Allah through dua, dhikr, and surrender.

Final Thought:

True sabr is not just about enduring trials—it is about finding peace amidst them. When we embrace patience, we transform hardships into a source of blessings and divine mercy. May Allah (SWT) grant us the strength to practice sabrand the wisdom to navigate life’s challenges with grace. Ameen.

🎧 Tune in now and discover how patience unlocks Allah’s blessings in your life!

Life is full of challenges, and yet, when we face difficulties, we often feel caught off guard. In today’s episode, we reflect on Surah Al-Ankabut (29:2-3), where Allah reminds us that simply professing faith does not mean we will be left untested:

“Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, ‘We believe,’ and not be tried?” – (Quran 29:2)

Trials and difficulties are not a sign that something has gone wrong—they are a natural and necessary part of life, designed to help us grow, strengthen our resilience, and bring us closer to Allah. In this episode, we explore why we are tested, how to shift our mindset during hardships, and how we can bounce back stronger rather than being broken by adversity.

Key Takeaways:

🔹 Why Trials Exist: Tests reveal the depth of our faith, build resilience, and realign us with our true purpose.
🔹 Resilience in Hardship: Imam Ali (AS) said: “Many a person who is afflicted is made stronger by his affliction.”
🔹 Strength Through Struggle: Just as gold is purified in fire, hardships refine and reveal our inner strength.
🔹 Shifting Priorities: Adversity often shatters our old worldview, helping us focus on what truly matters.
🔹 Trust in Allah: He never burdens us beyond our capacity—every trial is matched with the strength to endure it.

Reflection Questions:

• When faced with difficulty, do I see it as an opportunity for growth or a reason to despair?
• How have past struggles shaped me in ways I didn’t expect?
• How can I strengthen my faith during times of ease, so I am better prepared for challenges?

Final Thought:

As Imam Ali (AS) said:
"The reward for [bearing] hardship is greater than the extent of the hardship [itself]."

When we adjust our expectations and embrace life’s tests as part of the journey, we open ourselves to growth, resilience, and deeper spiritual connection.

🎧 Tune in now and explore how to transform challenges into opportunities for inner strength and faith.

When life doesn’t go as planned, our natural instinct is often to look outward—to blame someone or something else for our pain or problems. But what if blame is actually holding us back from healing, growth, and true wellbeing?

In today’s episode, we explore the seductive nature of blame and how it functions as a defense mechanism that protects us from uncomfortable emotions like guilt, shame, or vulnerability. Drawing from the Quran, teachings of the Ahlul Bayt (as), and insights from modern psychology, we uncover how blame traps us in emotional stagnation—while responsibility sets us free.

Through powerful examples like the contrasting responses of Prophet Adam (as) and Shaytan, we discover two radically different mindsets: one that leads to growth and forgiveness, and another that leads to arrogance and destruction.

Tune in to learn:

• Why blame feels good in the moment—but harms us in the long run
• The psychology behind projection and self-serving bias
• What the Quran and Ahlul Bayt (as) teach us about emotional responsibility
• The difference between reacting like a Prophet vs. reacting like Shaytan
• Practical reflection questions to move from blame to empowerment

Quranic Reflections:

• Surah Al-A’raf 7:23 – “Our Lord! We have wronged ourselves…”
• Surah Al-Anbiya 21:87 – “Surely I am of those who wronged themselves.”
• Surah Al-Hijr 15:39 – “My Lord, because You have put me in error…”

Hadith Highlights:

• Imam Ali (as): “The blamer should not blame anyone but himself.”
• Imam Ali (as): “Beware of making excuses, for they are the companions of failure.” (Ghurar al-Hikam)

Reflection Prompts:

• What part of this situation might I be avoiding responsibility for?
• How does blame protect me from feeling uncomfortable emotions?
• What is one small action I can take today to reclaim my power?

Takeaway:
Blame may offer temporary relief, but it blocks long-term transformation. Choosing responsibility—even in small ways—aligns us with the Prophetic path, brings us closer to Allah, and invites real inner peace.

In today’s episode, we explore a powerful truth from the Quran about wellbeing: that real change begins from within. While we often wait for external circumstances to shift, the Quran teaches us to focus on what is in our control—our mindset, our actions, and our choices.

Drawing from Surah Ar-Ra’d (13:11), “Indeed, Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves,” we reflect on how transformation starts internally. This verse is a call to take agency over our lives instead of surrendering to powerlessness or blame.

We unpack how our attention—when fixated on what’s out of our control—can lead to frustration and hopelessness, while focusing on our inner world opens the door to empowerment, growth, and divine support.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why waiting for others or circumstances to change keeps us stuck
• The importance of acting from a place of agency, even in difficult situations
• Practical reflection questions to help you shift from reaction to action
• How to align your choices with wellbeing and connection to Allah

Reflection Questions to Take with You:

• What part of this situation is in my control?
• What are my options here?
• What actions can I take to improve my wellbeing right now?
• How can I be a friend to myself in this challenge?
• What can I stop doing that’s making the situation worse?
• Which choices will bring me closer to Allah and inner peace?

Quranic Anchor:

"Indeed, Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves."
— [Surah Ar-Ra’d 13:11]

Today's reflection is adapted from the introduction to the book Calling on the Merciful, which features excerpts from the supplications taught by the Beloveds of Allah [swt].

Episode Summary:

In this episode, we reflect on the beautiful invitation and promise from Allah [swt] in Surah Ghafir [40:60]:

وَقَالَ رَبُّكُمُ ادْعُونِي أَسْتَجِبْ لَكُمْ
"And your Lord says: Call upon Me, I will answer you."

This verse is a powerful reminder of our constant need for connection with the Divine. Despite our illusions of self-sufficiency, our hearts long for the One who never fails us. Allah [swt] reassures us that He listens, responds, and never tires of our supplications.

Drawing upon Quranic wisdom and the supplications of the Ahlul Bayt [as], we explore:
🔹 How Dua is not just about seeking worldly relief but about deepening our relationship with Allah.
🔹 The importance of aiming higher in our prayers—beyond immediate needs to true spiritual fulfillment.
🔹 The transformative power of calling upon Allah through the words of His Beloveds.
🔹 How the act of supplication itself brings healing, peace, and clarity, even before our prayers are answered.

✨ Special Reflection for This Month ✨
Let us mindfully engage with the supplications of the Ahlul Bayt [as], allowing their wisdom to guide our hearts and souls. Join us on Instagram for daily excerpts from these profound prayers:
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🎧 Tune in and reconnect with the Most Merciful!

In this episode, we reflect on the profound message of Surah Taghabun, verse 11:

وَمَن يُؤْمِن بِاللَّهِ يَهْدِ قَلْبَهُ وَاللَّهُ بِكُلِّ شَيْءٍ عَلِيمٌ
“… and whoever believes in Allah, He guides aright his heart; and Allah is Cognizant of all things.” [64:11]

Life is full of crossroads, difficult decisions, and overwhelming choices, making it hard to find clarity and direction. In today’s world, we often turn to self-help books, mentors, or online influencers, yet find ourselves more confused than before. This episode explores how anchoring ourselves in faith and trusting in Allah’s guidance can bring clarity and peace.

Key Takeaways:

• The Challenge of Uncertainty: Human knowledge is limited, and we cannot foresee the impact of our decisions.

• Faith as an Anchor: In an era of shifting moral values and endless choices, relying on Allah provides a stable foundation.

• Divine Guidance Over Worldly Advice: While self-help resources can be useful, ultimate guidance comes from Allah, protecting us from misguidance.

• The Burden of Life Without Guidance: Scholars describe the struggle of those who lack divine direction as climbing an insurmountable mountain with thin air, leading to distress and confusion.

• Simple Steps to Seek Guidance: Turning to Allah is as simple as praying two rak’ahs with the intention of seeking guidance or pausing to ask for clarity in moments of uncertainty.

Practical Wisdom from Islamic Teachings:

• Imam 'Ali (AS) on Seeking Guidance: He advises continuously asking Allah for the best in all matters:

  • “In all your actions continuously ask (Allah) for the best.” (Nahj al-Balagha, Saying 31)

  • “Any time you have decided to perform an act, then ask (Allah) for what is best.” (Ghurur al-Hikam, Saying 3988)

• Dua Makarim Akhlaq – A Prayer for Steadfastness: Imam Zain ul Abedin (AS) asks Allah for unwavering guidance:

  • “Make me enjoy a righteous guidance which I do not seek to change, a path of truth from which I do not deviate, a well-guided intention which I do not doubt.”

Final Reflection: This verse offers a hopeful message—by believing in Allah and turning to Him sincerely, He will guide our hearts and ease our struggles. Our journey in faith is a continuous process of seeking, recognizing, and acting upon divine guidance. May we always turn to Him and find clarity in His wisdom.

Tune in to this episode and explore how you can cultivate a heart guided by faith.

As we continue to deepen our relationship with the Divine, today’s episode explores one of the most profound promises Allah (SWT) makes in the Quran:

“Whoever puts their trust in Allah, He is sufficient for them.” (Quran 65:3)

This verse from Surah Talaq reminds us that true peace and security come from relying on Allah. But what does it mean to truly have tawakkul (trust in God)? How do we balance action with faith? And how can we strengthen our trust in Him when faced with uncertainty, hardship, or fear?

Join us as we dive into:
✅ The meaning of tawakkul and its two-step process of effort and faith
✅ How tawakkul can bring peace in an unpredictable world
✅ The three levels of tawakkul—from partial trust to unwavering reliance on Allah
✅ Practical ways to develop tawakkul, including letting go of the illusion of control
✅ The "God Box" method as a tangible way to surrender worries to Allah

Through Quranic wisdom, Hadith, and reflections from scholars, we explore how tawakkul transforms our hearts and helps us navigate life's challenges with resilience and serenity.

Key Takeaways:
✨ Tawakkul is not passive—it's an active process of doing our best and then leaving the outcome to Allah.
✨ True trust in Allah removes anxiety and fear, replacing them with deep inner peace.
✨ Developing tawakkul requires recognizing our dependence on Allah, accepting hardships as part of life, and trusting in His perfect timing.

Quote of the Episode:
"Whoever wishes to be the most powerful person among people must trust God." – Prophet Muhammad (SAW)

🔗 Tune in now and take a step toward strengthening your trust in Allah!

In this episode, we explore the third essential aspect of developing our relationship with Allah: submission to Him. If we truly recognize and reciprocate Allah’s love and have awe of His greatness, submission becomes a natural and fulfilling choice rather than a burden.

We begin with the powerful Quranic verse from Surah Al-Baqarah (2:112), which highlights that true submission leads to becoming a Muhsin (a doer of good) and attaining a state of peace, free from fear and grief. This peace is not just a reward in the Hereafter but something we can experience in this life as well.

Yet, in the modern world, submission is often misunderstood—seen as a loss of freedom rather than a path to true liberation. Drawing on the wisdom of Allama Iqbal, we reflect on how submitting to Allah frees us from countless other forms of subjugation. The Prophet Muhammad (saw) further clarifies this through a powerful analogy: just as a patient trusts a doctor’s treatment over their own desires, we must trust that Allah’s guidance is always in our best interest.

We also discuss how human knowledge is limited and constantly evolving—what is considered truth today may be disproven tomorrow. In contrast, Allah’s guidance is perfect, timeless, and unchanging. Through practical examples, including shifts in health and medical trends, we examine how submission to divine wisdom protects us from the instability of human speculation.

Finally, we reflect on the profound words of Imam Zaynul ‘Ābidīn (as), who reminds us that true self-sufficiency lies in turning to Allah alone. When we embrace submission, we find inner peace, clarity, and unwavering security in our faith.

🔹 Key Topics Covered:

• The Quranic link between submission, goodness, and inner peace
• Why submission to Allah is a source of freedom, not oppression
• The limitations of human knowledge vs. the perfection of divine wisdom
• Practical examples of how divine guidance safeguards us
• The words of Imam Zaynul ‘Ābidīn (as) on seeking only from Allah

🎧 Tune in to discover how true submission brings lasting peace, security, and trust in Allah’s divine wisdom.

In this episode, we continue our exploration of developing a deep connection with Allah by focusing on khashyah (خشية)—awe of Allah. Often mistranslated as fear, khashyah is a reverence that comes from knowledge, reflection, and love rather than anxiety over punishment.

We begin by reflecting on Surah Az-Zumar (39:23), where Allah describes how the hearts of those who truly fear Him soften upon hearing His words. Unlike khauf (fear), khashyah transforms the soul, bringing both awe and serenity.

We also delve into the psychological benefits of awe, drawing from modern research that highlights its profound impact on well-being. Experiencing awe enhances humility, expands our perception of time, increases compassion, reduces stress, and strengthens our social bonds—paralleling the transformative effects of deep spiritual connection in Islam.

Inspired by Imam Ali’s (as) description of the God-conscious in Nahjul Balagha, we explore practical ways to cultivate khashyah in our daily lives—through Quranic reflection, nature, dhikr, and gaining knowledge of Allah’s creation.

By embracing awe, we deepen our relationship with Allah and experience both the vastness of His greatness and the tranquility that comes from knowing Him.

Key Takeaways:

✅ Khashyah is reverence and awe of Allah based on knowledge and reflection, not fear of punishment.
✅ The Quran has a profound emotional and physiological impact on those who develop khashyah.
✅ Science confirms that awe benefits mental well-being, increasing humility, generosity, and social connection.
✅ Practical ways to cultivate khashyah include engaging with the Quran, reflecting on nature, and practicing dhikr.

Reflection Questions:

• When was the last time you experienced a moment of true awe?
• How can you cultivate more khashyah in your daily life?

Resources Mentioned:

📖 Surah Az-Zumar (39:23) – The impact of awe on the believer’s heart
📖 Surah Fatir (35:28) – How knowledge leads to khashyah
📖 Nahjul Balagha – Imam Ali’s description of those who are God-conscious
🔬 Research from the Greater Good Science Center at UC Berkeley on the psychology of awe

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Episode Summary: In our journey toward fostering well-being, we must recognize and nourish our innate need for connection with the Divine. Over the next three days, we will explore three key aspects of developing a meaningful relationship with Allah: 1. Love of Allah 2. Awe of Allah 3. Submission to Allah Today, we begin with **Love of Allah**—the foundation upon which a sincere and fulfilling relationship with Him is built. Key Takeaways: The Power of Love: Love attracts us, deepens connections, and transforms devotion into a soul-fulfilling relationship rather than mere obligations. Allah’s Love for Us: His love is constant and deeply personal, as mentioned in Surah Al-Ma'idah (5:54), where He describes a people **"whom He loves and who love Him."** The Strongest Love: In Surah Al-Baqarah (2:165), Allah distinguishes between those who love worldly things as they should love Him and true believers, **"But those who believe are stronger in love for Allah." Identifying Rivals to Divine Love: The term Andad' (أندادًا) in the Quran refers to things or people that take precedence over our love for Allah, such as material possessions, ambitions, or personal desires. Ways to Strengthen Our Love for Allah: 1. Reflecting on His Names and Attributes. 2. Appreciating His countless blessings. 3. Understanding His deep and unconditional love for us. 4. Engaging in Dhikr (remembrance) and Reflection. 5. Engaging with, and reflecting on His Word A Beautiful Du’a for Divine Love: Imam Zainul Abideen (a.s.) in Munajat al-Muhibbin* The Whispered Prayer of Those Who Love Allah) asks: “I ask from You love for You, and love for those who love You… And that You make Yourself more beloved to me than anything other than You.” Reflection for Listeners: - What competes with my love for Allah in my heart? - How can I actively increase my love for Him? - How does my relationship with Allah shape my daily decisions and priorities? Final Thoughts: May Allah grant us hearts that love Him above all else, and may this love bring us closer to His infinite mercy and guidance. Ameen. Tune in tomorrow as we explore the next step in our journey: Awe of Allah.

Rest Your Heart in His Remembrance [13:28]

Episode Summary:
In our constant search for peace and happiness, we often turn to material success, relationships, achievements, and self-care. However, true and lasting peace can only be found in the remembrance of Allah. In this episode, we explore the profound wisdom of Surah Ar-Ra’d (13:28):

"Those who believe and whose hearts are set at rest by the remembrance of Allah; now surely by Allah's remembrance are the hearts set at rest."

This verse teaches us that the tranquility (itminan) we seek is achieved by connecting with As-Salam, the Source of Peace. We delve into the concept of dhikr—its meaning, significance, and transformative effects on our spiritual, mental, and emotional well-being.

Key Takeaways:
✅ The Nature of Dhikr – Dhikr is any act that reminds us of Allah. It can be silent or spoken, and it requires no specific time or place.
✅ The Power of Repetition – Engaging in phrases like SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar induces a state of calm and relaxation.
✅ Mindfulness Through Dhikr – Unlike secular meditation, dhikr not only centers us in the present but also connects us to the Divine.
✅ Discipline & Resilience – Regular dhikr builds self-control, emotional resilience, and a deep-rooted connection with Allah.
✅ Polishing the Heart – Imam Ja’far al-Sadiq (AS) said, "The heart of a believer is the sanctuary of Allah, so do not allow anyone to dwell in Allah’s sanctuary except Him."

Making Dhikr a Daily Habit:
If you’re looking for a simple way to incorporate dhikr into your routine, try this 5-minute practice:

• Find a quiet moment in your day.

• Take a deep breath, inhaling peace and exhaling distractions.

• Choose one of Allah’s Beautiful Names (As-Salam, Ar-Rahman, Al-Wali).

• Softly repeat it, either aloud or in your heart, letting its meaning settle within you.

• Reflect: How can this Name manifest in my life today?

The beauty of dhikr is in its simplicity—it is accessible anytime, anywhere, and in any state. Peace isn’t something we have to chase; it naturally arises when we realign ourselves with Him.

🎧 Listen now and let your heart find rest in His remembrance.

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"Know Your Fitrah" [30:30]

Episode Summary:
What brings us true well-being, peace, and happiness? The answer lies in understanding our fitrah—our innate nature as created by Allah. In this episode, we reflect on Surah Ar-Rum (30:30), where Allah tells us that human beings are created with a natural disposition that inclines toward truth, justice, and beauty. However, most people remain unaware of this divine compass within them.

We explore the two key concepts in this verse:

• Hanif – Turning away from misguidance and inclining toward the oneness of God.
• Fitrah – The pure, God-given nature that seeks truth and righteousness.

When we align with our fitrah, we experience inner peace and fulfillment. When we ignore it, we feel restless and lost. We also discuss the distractions of modern life that pull us away from our true essence—and how we can nurture our fitrah to find deep spiritual contentment.

Key Takeaways:
✅ True Religion & Fitrah – Islam doesn’t contradict our nature; it reinforces it.
✅ Inner Turmoil & Disconnection – When we stray from our fitrah, we feel lost.
✅ The Role of Reflection – Awareness of our fitrah requires intentional effort.
✅ Seeking Closeness to Allah – This is the key to lasting peace and fulfillment.

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In this episode, we explore the paradox of modern wellbeing—why, despite the global pursuit of happiness and self-care, mental health struggles like anxiety and depression continue to rise. We compare secular psychology’s approach to wellbeing with the Islamic perspective, highlighting how true inner peace goes beyond self-optimization to spiritual alignment, purpose, and trust in Allah. Join us as we discuss how integrating faith with modern psychology can offer a more holistic path to lasting peace and mental resilience.

Let’s remind ourselves of the principles of healthy discussion and debate from the Quran which we have been exploring over the last few days

1. Use wisdom and good admonition and dispute with them in a manner that is best [Quran16:125].

2. Establish common ground Establish common ground 29:46

3. Use logic and appeal to reason [Quran 36:77-79]

4. Do not offend [Quran 6:109]

5. Present a balanced perspective  [Quran 2:219].

6. Respond with goodness rather than react to evil [Quran 41:34].

 

One of the methods frequently used by the Quran to convince the reader of its arguments is the use of logic and rhetorical questioning. Researchers into Quranic linguists assert that such rhetorical questions are used in more than a thousand verses of the Quran and each use is an invitation for the reader to shift their thinking paradigm. 
Let us remind ourselves that a rhetorical question is one that is asked without expecting or needing an answer but for the sake of emphasis or effect. Linguists say that a rhetorical question is “a forceful statement which has the form of a question but which does not expect an answer.’’ i.e., the rhetorical question has an interrogative structure but does not seek information. The speaker has some purpose in his mind, either to give a command or to make a statement indirectly. 
In the Holy Quran, Allah [swt] uses such questions to 
emphasize a point, 
to show the logic of the argument
and to jolt the reader into reflecting
to help the reader understand the point 
and to convince the reader with the sound logic presented. 
Why use this method of discussion? Scholars explain that the Holy Quran addresses its readers as sentient, articulate and rational human beings. It reminds us that we have been given the faculty of reason and logic. We have the ability to weigh things up, to make considered judgements. We are not asked to follow blindly or to agree to something which does not appeal to our reason. And so, by presenting convincing arguments, we are invited to be utterly convinced, deep down, in our heart and soul, that what is revealed in the Quran is the Truth, and that the truth can stand up to any scrutiny.

Example: One of the frequent challenges that came up for the Holy Prophet [saw] was the belief in resurrection and the hereafter. In the following verses, the Quran uses rhetorical questions to help us reflect and come to logical conclusions:
Has man not seen that We created him from a drop, and behold, he is a manifest adversary?
And he has set forth for Us a parable and forgotten his own creation, saying, "Who revives these bones, decayed as they are?" 
Say, "He will revive them Who brought them forth the first time, and He knows every creation [Quran 36:77-79]

These questions are posed to those who rejected the resurrection and final accounting. Their argument was: how can we be recreated if our bones have already turned to dust? The counter-argument presented through rhetorical questions is that the recreation cannot be harder than the original creation. He who created you in the first place, can He not bring you back? If He could create from nothingness, what can stop Him from recreating from the bones that have turned to dust?
Implementing this verse in our discussions and arguments requires a level of confidence and grounded-ness. 
When we find ourselves in disputed arguments, it is so easy to get emotional and entrenched in our views. Excellent communicators, however, learn how and when to use logic and reason to put their points across. Using such questions is also deeply respectful of your opponent as you are appealing to their innate sense of reason and logic.

We have explored this verse from Sura Fussilat from many different aspects. Today’s exploration will be in line with our theme of using verses from the Quran to guide us when we find ourselves in the midst of an argument. 

Despite our best intentions, things can get heated when we are in the midst of a conflict. It is hard to hear things that go against our belief system. It is so easy to take things personally. Others can say things in a way that triggers us and potentially make us lose our emotional balance. 

This verse from Sura Fussilat advices us to not react when others fall short of respectful conduct.

Repel [evil] with what is best. [If you do so,] behold, he between whom and you was enmity, will be as though he were a sympathetic friend [Quran 41:34].

Scholars explain that the absence of a direct object after repel in the above verse means that the verse is open to many meanings and possibilities: we can repel anger with patience, error with truth, ignorance with clemency, and the commission of evil with pardon.

In other words, instead of reacting to people’s behavior out of anger, we can practice responding in a way that is aligned to our own value system.

As this verse explains, when we do this, it gives the other person a chance to calm down, it diffuses the tension and the aggression and allows the conversation to get back on track. A practice of repelling evil [or communication triggers and mistakes] with good [responsive and worthy communication] can lead to reconciliation, love, and (re)connection.

How?

We need to pause enough so that we can remind ourselves of the gifts Allah [swt] has given us in order to repel evil with good. These gifts are the gift of imagination, of self-control, of will power and the gift of conscience. It is only when we use some or all of these gifts that we can respond based on our own values rather than react to poor behaviour on the part of another.

 

Do not revile those whom they call upon besides Allah, lest they should revile God out of enmity, ignorance. [Quran 6:108]

This verse from Sura Anam cautions believers not to turn to offence and aggression in the midst of an argument, especially on matters of faith. It also provides a solid reason why it is not a good idea to do so: because such behaviour will most likely lead to a retaliation of like for like.

When we are in the midst of an argument, it can be easy to become triggered and angry. If we sense we are losing an argument, we can become aggressive, attacking that which is most sacred to the other in an effort to prove our point, hurt the other or to defend ourselves.

Such tactics never work. Behaviour like this will lead to a tit for tat competition that will only increase anger, bitterness and hostility between the arguing parties.
A verbal assault has the same impact on our physiology that a physical attack does. When human beings are thus attacked, their rational brain goes offline and they regress to their most primitive instincts of fight or flight. When human beings are attacked, they will either attack the other or defend themselves using whatever means they have in their power. Often, they will resort to attacking our most vulnerable areas or our most sacred beliefs.

In other words, once we resort to attacking what is sacred to the other, the outcome of such a conversation or discussion cannot be good. It will leave both parties feeling angry, aggressive and hostile towards the other. 

This verse is a powerful reminder in our personal, spiritual and political lives when we find ourselves in a midst of a dispute. Let us maintain respect for each other and mind our words, using logic and reason rather than hate or aggression to make our points.

As believers, we are expected to show the highest level of decorum and behaviour towards friends and opponents alike. 

This is more true today than ever before when arguments on social media often disintegrate to hateful and offensive comments as people hide behind the screen to say things that they would not have the guts to say to others in person. 

Whether we like it or not, fair or not, reality is that the whole is judged by its part. Every single one of us is an ambassador and those that wish us ill are purposely baiting and triggering us, waiting for us to fail, to slip up. Let us use this verse to remind ourselves not to fall for these traps. 

How can we do this? 

We do not need to engage or respond right away, especially on social media. We can give ourselves the grace of time and gather our thoughts before responding. We can remind ourselves of the larger goal, and that none of this is personal. And we can practice practice practice!

When we are in the midst of a conflict or a dispute, we tend to focus only on our side of the argument, ignoring or rejecting what merit or truth may be found on the other side.

 

 

And when we do this, the other side gets more focused on proving us wrong and highlighting their arguments. 

 

 

Discussions and arguments like these seldom if ever, result in a deeper understanding. And they almost never result in any one side giving in to the other. 

 

The Quran teaches us another way:

 

they ask you about wine and gambling. Say,“There is a great sin in both of them, and some benefits for the people, but their sinfulness outweighs their benefit” [Quran 2:219].

 

This is such an interesting verse and one from which we can learn a lot.

 

 

Although the Quran is unequivocal in its discouragement of using intoxicants and gambling, it acknowledges that there is some merit and attraction in them.

 

 

To someone who is inclined towards intoxicants and/or gambling, they are engaging in these because they find some attraction or benefit in them. If we are too focused on telling them all the reasons why these are evil and not allowed, their experience is that we do not understand them and why they are so inclined. Once we accept that their inclinations make sense given the attraction, they feel validated and are much more likely to hear opposing arguments out. 

 

This is such a beautiful example of how we can acknowledge and validate another point of view while we present our arguments and reasoning. When we are able to acknowledge and validate another’s point of view, we do these four things:

 

1)   Convey that we are balanced and open minded

2)   Convey empathy and understanding for their point of view

3)   Convey that we are brave and fair enough to look at all sides of an issue, even those that go against our point of view

4)   Look for common ground

Such a posture when we are in conflict does a lot to dissolve resistance and greatly enhances the other’s ability to listen to our point of view and to consider it.

 

This verse is particularly useful for parents who are attempting to discourage their children from using substances or engaging in risky behaviour. If we acknowledge the positive aspects of substances and convey that we understand the attraction, they are so much more likely to pay attention to what we have to say.

 

Continuing with our series on inspiration from the Holy Quran for engaging in discussion and dispute, the verse today is from Sura Ankabut where Allah (swt) says: 

 

And dispute not with the People of the Book, save in the most virtuous manner, unless it be those of them who have done wrong. And say, “We believe in that which was sent down unto us and was sent down unto you; our God and your God are one, and unto Him are we submitters.” [Holy Quran 29:46]

 

This verse is an injunction to the Prophet and Muslims to not argue with Jews and Christians, except in a beautiful manner that calls them through God’s signs and draws evidence from God’s proofs or in a manner that invites them to good, as in the verse we discussed yesterday [16:125: Call unto the way of thy Lord with wisdom and goodly exhortation. And dispute with them in the most virtuous manner] which taught us that even if others speak poorly, Muslims should still speak well. 

 

Today’s verse from Sura Ankabut adds another principle for debate and dispute: establish common ground by reminding the other side of what you share in common. In this verse, the Holy Prophet [saw] is asked to remind them that he believes in their revelation and that they both share a common deity of worship. 

 

Muslims are ordered to declare the fundamental similarities between the revelations sent to them and those sent to previous religious communities, as in 2:136: Say, “We believe in God, and in that which was sent down to us, and in that which was sent down to Abraham, Ishmael, Isaac, Jacob, and the Tribes, and in what Moses and Jesus were given, and in what the prophets were given from their Lord. We make no distinction among any of them, and unto Him we submit” (cf. 3:84). 

 

In a world that is focused on differences between people, in what makes one superior over another and the divides therein, this verse establishes a very important principle of communicating with those we disagree with: instead of focusing on what separates us, establish a common ground that you can agree on. 

 

A study of psychology reveals why this is such an important and effective way to communicate. 

We all come from different backgrounds and as a result, we see things differently and hold different beliefs.

But this doesn’t mean it’s impossible to agree, or at least be amicable and respectful. By finding common ground, we can see eye-to-eye with someone else for a moment. It then becomes easier to see eye-to-eye on other topics you previously didn’t agree on at all. 

When we focus on differences, the other is likely to become defensive and much more stubborn in their position. Pointing out what you have in common and can agree on, validates them, puts them at ease and makes it more likely that they may listen to your point of view. 

 

Of course, this does not mean that we will always convince the other person of our point of view. When people realize that there are at least some areas of agreement, it builds trust and both can walk away feeling less diametrically opposed. And it is more likely that you can work together toward common goals.

Reflection: 

When was the last time you were in disagreement with someone about a matter or belief or value? Did you walk away with a deeper understanding or a feeling of further distance and dissatisfaction? 

 

Implementation:

Next time you find yourself in disagreement, remember this verse and try establishing common ground, some area of agreement. This is not as hard as it sounds. We can often disagree about details but agree on the bigger picture. For example, as Muslims, we can all agree about the importance of the Holy Prophet [saw] and emulating his way of life, even if we disagree on the details of what that looks like. 

 

Communication experts recommend the following to foster communication between people on opposing sides of an issue:

1. Know your subject and why you believe what you do. When we are not sure of why we belief what we do, we are more likely to get defensive.

2. Try to see it from their perspective. Seeing from another perspective does not mean that we give up our beliefs. It does mean that we build bridges of mutual respect and understanding. When we can present the other person’s argument to them, it immediately builds trust and respect because they know we get it, even if we do not agree. 

3. Seeing from another perspective begins by listening and asking questions to deepen our understanding. Not only does this foster greater understanding, it also allows people to reflect on their own beliefs and biases.

4. Be aware of your own biases and maybe even announce them. We are all products of our environment and upbringing and this impacts how we think and what we belief. We can be humble about this without changing our beliefs if they are working for us.

5. Keep the issue under discussion separate from the person who is arguing it. This means we never ever attack another human being’s character or personality. Doing do will only ensure that they do the same and will block out your arguments. 

 

1. Appeal to reason and ask [rhetorical] questions [36:77-79]

One of the methods frequently used by the Quran to convince the reader of its arguments is the use of logic and rhetorical questioning. Researchers into Quranic linguists assert that such rhetorical questions are used in more than a thousand verses of the Quran and each use is an invitation for the reader to shift their thinking paradigm. 

Let us remind ourselves that a rhetorical question is one that is asked without expecting or needing an answer but for the sake of emphasis or effect. Linguists say that a rhetorical question is “a forceful statement which has the form of a question but which does not expect an answer.’’ i.e., the rhetorical question has an interrogative structure but does not seek information. The speaker has some purpose in his mind, either to give a command or to make a statement indirectly. 

In the Holy Quran, Allah [swt] uses such questions to 

emphasize a point, 

to show the logic of the argument

and to jolt the reader into reflecting

to help the reader understand the point 

and to convince the reader with the sound logic presented. 

Why use this method of discussion? Scholars explain that the Holy Quran addresses its readers as sentient, articulate and rational human beings. It reminds us that we have been given the faculty of reason and logic. We have the ability to weigh things up, to make considered judgements. We are not asked to follow blindly or to agree to something which does not appeal to our reason. And so, by presenting convincing arguments, we are invited to be utterly convinced, deep down, in our heart and soul, that what is revealed in the Quran is the Truth, and that the truth can stand up to any scrutiny.

Example: One of the frequent challenges that came up for the Holy Prophet [saw] was the belief in resurrection and the hereafter. In the following verses, the Quran uses rhetorical questions to help us reflect and come to logical conclusions:

Has man not seen that We created him from a drop, and behold, he is a manifest adversary?
And he has set forth for Us a parable and forgotten his own creation, saying, "Who revives these bones, decayed as they are?" 
Say, "He will revive them Who brought them forth the first time, and He knows every creation [Quran 36:77-79]

These questions are posed to those who rejected the resurrection and final accounting. Their argument was: how can we be recreated if our bones have already turned to dust? The counter-argument presented through rhetorical questions is that the recreation cannot be harder than the original creation. He who created you in the first place, can He not bring you back? If He could create from nothingness, what can stop Him from recreating from the bones that have turned to dust?

Implementing this verse in our discussions and arguments requires a level of confidence and grounded-ness. 

When we find ourselves in disputed arguments, it is so easy to get emotional and entrenched in our views. Excellent communicators, however, learn how and when to use logic and reason to put their points across. Using such questions is also deeply respectful of your opponent as you are appealing to their innate sense of reason and logic.

 

Today we start a series on verses from the Quran that guide us how to discuss, debate and disagree with people.  

In the following verse from Sura Nahl, Allah says: 

Call unto the way of your Lord with wisdom and goodly exhortation. And dispute with them in them in a manner that is best [16:125]

 

4 commands are given to the Holy Prophet [as] in this verse. 

 

1. “(O’ Prophet!) call (mankind)…”

2. “…to the path of your Lord…”

3. “…with wisdom and good admonition…”

4. “…and dispute with them in a manner that is best…”

 

Scholars explain that “To call . . . with wisdom” may mean 

1. That the one inviting towards God should use knowledge, reason, and understanding to attract people towards God. He should appeal to the natural instinct and the intellect of human beings. People are more likely to respond to arguments which are rational and logical. 

Hazrat Luqmān (as) when advising his son, said: My son, learn wisdom and you will become noble, for verily wisdom directs towards religion 

2. that people should call others to religion on the basis of the revelation that has come to them, that is by using the verses of the Quran 

3. Or with firm and truthful words, avoiding obscure language or jargon 

4. The term beautiful or wise exhortation/admonition can be understood to refer to the beautiful expressions that constitute the arguments, proofs, and reminders found in scripture

5. Admonition that is done with good intention and for the benefit of people being advised as this shows concern for them

6. It is advice which is offered in a gentle manner, in a manner that would soften hearts, that is, with gentle persuasion and reasonable commands

 

Good advice, admonition

The second part of the verse deals with the situation that when people are called, they will naturally present their own arguments. And so, how should he respond?

 

To dispute with them in the best way

 

1. one should dispute in matters of religious difference by using logical argumentation based upon sound and mutually agreed-upon principles

2. It should be done with sincerity, fairness, gentleness and should preserve the dignity of the other person

3. Without harassment, rudeness, or harshness

4. It should be free from condemnation and mockery, and not overstated

 

Reflection:

This verse entails a positive command to action. Invite others towards God. Speak about righteousness and universal values. Invite through example and speech. And when presented with counter arguments, dispute in a gentle and fair manner. 

Implementation:

This verse teaches us how to communicate our values and beliefs to others and also how to respond when others do not agree. 

Reality is that in relationships and in life, we may find ourselves on opposing sides of an issue. Very often, when this happens, we may get triggered and react in a an aggressive and unhelpful way. 

 

This verse reminds us how to engage in communication when there is clearly a difference of opinion or values.

 

Firstly, such conversation needs to be done with the right intention. We can speak up for what we believe, defend our truth, remove doubts and misconceptions, but we must always do with respect and compassion. When we dispute or argue in this way, we are not defending our own power of status. We come from a place of respect, love and compassion, intending good for all concerned.

 

Secondly, wisdom and good advice means that we keep in mind what might be in it for the other person. Why should they listen to us? What is in it for them?

 

This verse is such a valuable reminder, especially in current times when people are more polarized and divided than ever. By being guided by wisdom and respect in our communication we have the best chance of being heard, influencing others or making a difference. 

 

For the next few days, let us explore the elements of a good discussion or argument. 

 

In the final session on Sura Saba, we discuss accountability and summarize the message of the Sura

In these verses, Allah swt is asking us to awake our consciousness through contemplation. The HP (saw) is asked to present rational and logical arguments to the people to invite them towards faith

In this episode we talk about the arguments used by the Quraish to disbelive in the message of the Quran 

Continuing our study of Chapter 34, Sura Saba. In this episode, we discuss how arrogance, power and materialism caused the Meccans to disbelieve in the message of the Quran

The last section of Sura Fatir 

We explore the strenghts and means we have in resisting the Shaytan